---TIMELY RESOLUTION ~~

--"Settle matters quickly with your adversary." --
--[Matthew 5:25]

---THE UNRESOLVED hurt between Simon and Geoffrey had persisted for years, and Simon attempts to reenter the relationship had been resisted. Upon hearing the news of the death of Geoffrey's mother, Simon traveled "up country" in Kenya to attend her funeral service. . Simon reflected on their encounter: "I had no expectations at all in terms of how the whole thing would turn out, [but] after the service, we opened up and had a fruitful talk. We hugged, shared, the moment, prayed together and planned to meet again." If only Simon and Geoffrey had been about to reconcile earlier, so much ongoing pain could have been avoided.

The words of Jesus in Matthew 5:21-26 help to put unresolved relational tensions in perspective. The anger that can lead to such rifts is a serious matter (v.22). Furthermore, getting things in order relationally is a fitting prelude to worshipping God (vv. 23-24). The wise words of Jesus to "settle matters quickly with your adversary (v. 25) remind us that the sooner we do what we can to work toward reconciliation the better for all.

Relationships are risky; they demand work--in our families, in the work place, in educational settings, and among people who share our faith in Christ. But as those who represent Him, the :Prince of Peace (Isaiah 9:6), may we find ourselves going out of our way to extend our hearts and hands to those with whom we have unresolved conflict.

--"Father, You know where the relational fissures are in my life. Forgive me for my slowness to attempt resolution. Give me the strength to take the next steps."

--ODB/AJ~