Yes I've got the same thing going on. I've learned to just keep it to myself mostly. When I mention it to my hubby I can tell he thinks I'm weird. You know that dismissive attitude. And his problems are so much worse and actually real! Ya know what I mean? What really bugs me though, is I've just started talking to my step daughter about the issue, since I've gotten my filllings out and am feeling some better. She has, what I feel, are amalgam issues up the gazoo, but I get that same dismissive attitude from her when I try to get her to look into this for herself. And I know dang well that her hubby would be a total jerk about the subject.
Oh and I can soooo relate to the not socializing any more.