Jim:

I have problems also...Frequency and sometimes I have problems holding it. I will be heading for the bathroom, and either get in the door or see the stool, and my bladder decides it's "time" to go....VERY hard to keep from leaking.
I rarely make it through the night with only one "get up to pee" run. Almost always it is 2 or 3 times a night, even when I don't drink anything.
It's hell trying to travel. I drive my poor husband crazy. I can rarely make it more than an hour or so.
People tell me it's normal with age, but I am 53, not 90!