I think you have a healthy attitude --and are not willing to blindly enter a any old church just to say you "go to church" - but somwhere that you feel will feed you spiritually and help you.


Why don't you put this entire question before God and ask Him to lead you as though you were "blind" and that He would confirm the decision. Don't rush your choice- just keep your ears and eyes open, and check any opportunities presented-- then ask God to confirm for you.

There are alot of sincere groups out there, but in every church you are going to get hypocrital people -- even the pastor cant control that. Don't let that scandalize you .

A church should be like a hospital , where you know your not an angel, but where you can get help to get closer to God and where you can express your love of God to others by service and just simple kindness.

Some churches are very Action oriented, but they actually pride themselves and brag about how much good they do for Society and the poor. Look for a church that prays before they do anything, and who does good to others --but does it for God and not for religious Ego.