It's their strongly held religious beliefs and you cannot just NEGOTIATE them out of it as you could not NEGOTIATE Hitler out of what he believed was his destination to do!
That has already been tried in history and failed.
And if it's true about the Administration leaking info to the people who want to wipe us off the map and Israel believes and other's believe it to be true.
Then Israel should not trust telling President Obama anything it doesn't want them to know.
I don't think playing any of these types of games is going to stop a war from happening as Iran is the one who wants the war and to wipe us off the map.
I think it's only going to make it worse for us in the long run.

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