Hi Abishag, (((( Smiles ))))
Mars and Venus it's a book, but the Bible is even better when it comes to advice for the love lost.
http://home.marsvenus.com/It is a funny way to describe the differences and as alot of people can relate to that book name thats why I brought up that title.
All things to all people.

Glad you enjoyed it! Glad your not from venus you make my day earthling from sunny Florida, glad your around.
While men are given the greater role of accountability & responsibilty because of headship.
If a man is not respectful and considerate to his wife in the greater role of accountability that comes with headship treating her with love, honor and respect.
God may not consider his prayers and the relationship with God is effected.
Likewise, husbands dwelling together according to knowledge, as with a weaker vessel, the female, bestowing honor, as truly (being ) co-heirs of (the) grace of life, not cutting off your prayers.
-- 1 Peter 3:7
The Interlinear Bible
The Bible calls us to come from the love and respect angle even when we believe the other partner does not deserve it.
To take the higher ground however hard that may be to do.
Thats what God wants.