Hi JK98, (((( Smiles ))))

It can be so hard at times and as we do live in a fallen world and we are not perfected yet we all can and do mess up.
Thats why we all need forgiveness and to forgive the Bible says..
But the Bible command's us to do this because in the long run it's for the best of the family and family relationships.
Sometimes it's a work in progress like Men are from Mars Women are from Venus but maybe it can all boil down too this as..

When a women feels unloved, she reacts in ways that are disrespectful toward him.
When a man feels disrespected, he acts unloving toward her.
Then all hell can break loose in the home.

When women feel unloved they act disrespectful.
It's in learning what they call the love language women learning how men feel and men learning how women feel.
We must understand those differences to understand our mates.