There is no perfect time (in my opinion) to have a baby, only somewhat less suitable or more suitable times. If a woman waits until her health is perfect or her personal situation is perfect, she may as well join a convent now.

I am not saying anyone should have a baby with an unsuitable man or anything like that (!!!) - only that the ol' clock is ticking. Having a baby is never a disaster, though it is certainly presented that way by the Planned Parenthood bunch.