Ah, so many misconceptions and assumptions, so little time. And yet more unsolicited advice. It's pretty telling when you reflect on the reasons people tend to offer unsolicited advice.

Another "gotcha" in discussions like these is that sometimes individuals project their own assumptions and beliefs onto the other person's words. They react to what they think the person means, rather than simply reading the words on the page.

If you haven't "got it" by now, I'm afraid there is a major disconnect. Maybe I'm just not communicating very well, or maybe you're just not able to put aside your preconceptions, beliefs. and assumptions long enough to hear what I am actually saying. My apologies for my participation in the miscommunication, whatever the root cause.

Should you decide to make yourself familiar with the rules of informal logic as the accepted standard for debate/discussion, then maybe we'll chat again.

Until then, best of luck to you.

Tom