Sorry, Carla, it wasn't you I was referring to re: stirring up dissension, but if you would like, I will certainly include you in that last message <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Nope, it was Tom. It almost feels as if he is attacking Demi. You see, I know Demi has a lot of physical problems, and just plain doesn't feel well, and in her posts, I could feel her tension rising. She has enough to contend with. Now, there are some things worth fighting for, ie: things that are truly either right or wrong, but I don't feel it is worth getting all bent out of shape about things which are of personal opinion esp. if one of the parties is starting to get miffed, or hurt, or whatever. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />