Hello.

I'm the administrator and I've been watching but I believe in letting people work out most of their own issues with each other. This is healthy and part of the reason we're all not created identical to each other.

We'll find that most people—whether they're "agreeable" or "confrontational" in nature—have something useful and valuable to offer. With personality strengths, there are weaknesses and vulnerabilities that naturally-occur together with those strengths. Our interaction with others reveals those weaknesses to us, often in the form of emotional pain. Our interaction then helps us to change—if we let it.

With this in mind, those who are more sensitive could realize their value and influence, even when someone a little more brash comes along. They could learn not to be hurt by words because those words are not threatening to them because they (the sensitive) already have value and need not be "easily offended" (as the Bible says). God is in control and all things work together for good.

Similarly, those with more edge could perhaps benefit from a strategy of sensitivity that would make them more effective and influential when dealing with a more sensitive person.

Some are warriers. Some are artists. Both are valuable and hopefully perform their function in the "Body" as they were designed to do. If not, God will deal with them, although He (Yahweh) expects us to kindly point out imperfections in our friends ("As iron sharpens iron...") if we discern that it is beneficial at the time. After all, it is not what is said to us that makes us great or small or useful or useless. It is what we say.