^^^^ I agree it's about balance, control is key and at my young age I am still wreckless in ways and look at all kinds of women, I guess that might change if I get a serious girl or a Wife, but right now all women seem so attractive. When I look at a married woman (Like one of my friends at work) I do respect it though and don't really stare as much and feel bad if I do, I just think she is a beautiful strong woman and I respect her husband and kids, thats how I look at things, they are not lustful to me anymore and I have controlled that part of me (5 YEARS AGO FORGET IT LOL, I was wreckless). I need to seriously slow down and get control over certain things in my life, I guess that is starting to happen as I get older and start thinking more and being more of a man, these things become a little more easy to control as far as lust goes (When you are young forget it). I guess society just tames the kids to look at girls in tight shorts and the way they dress and think this and that is okay is just instilled in kids minds and thats the way it's supposed to be, or so they THINK. Sex is heavily promoted all over, from music to TV to magazines, all things young men and women see. I am trying now, tough road to kick some things but in the end I bet this brother will be a better one.