You're welcome Russ. I meant it. Doesn't mean I still like everything, but I am responsible for my own behavior. I agree about discernment as far as the "judging" thing, too, but others of us are also capable of using that. (Actually that is something I consider myself as having a gift for. I always check myself (sometimes after the fact admittedly) and don't ever just assume I'm right - but I have been a good majority of the time throughout my life). There is a difference in disagreeing and belittling or judging someone personally, though, and my position is that you would do well to reword some of what you say rather than stoop to out and out insults and I still hold that only God can truly judge a person's heart.