well it would appear, Russ, that God is not answering your prayers with any form of noticable haste.

May I make a suggestion?

Yell and scream, stamp your feet, stick your head out teh window and demand his attention. At least to feel better in the midst of calamity. He's a busy guy. Squeaky wheel gets the grease.

Or else find a church where he is known to show up and heal people.

because it's rather obvious to me that you are being ignored.