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Hi Bex,

It's nice to agree with people here. The sexualisation of the pop industry wouldn't bother me so much if there were choice on offer. There isn't, though. From what I can see, girls consistently get the same message, and that is that looking sexy and getting a boy are the only things in life that matter.

The Spice Girls had their reunion tour recently. They bother me now just like they bothered me when they were popular the first time around. "Girl Power" -- what's that? Explain how you are showing girls how to "empower" themselves exactly? It's a talentless group of pretty women who don't really seem to stand for anything other than glamour. Well, I guess you can find this in many parts of the media now, not just the pop industry. What direction are we headed in I wonder.


Yeah but compared with Madonna and Britney, I think these girls were like bubble gum. But I see what you're saying. However, it's becoming much worse now and some of the pop videos now are akin almost to soft porn (as you stated earlier). It's an affliction, rather than a joy. The music industry is pretty much a sick joke these days. Yes, Pwcca is right it's just about the money. Greed reigns.

But that take a look at much of the TV programmes wink It's not alot better. Low on quality and high on garbage alot of it, or perhaps New Zealand just get the dregs of it and there is better stuff out there that we're not getting. It really is bad. Even some of our home-grown shows are embarrassing. The kind you hope nobody gets to see overseas.

This is why parents have to start taking stronger roles for the sake of their kids. I don't mean wrapping the child in cotton wool or putting them in a bubble, because that isn't going to prepare them for what's out there. But geesh, let them have the chance to be kids and enjoy "some" of their innocence. My neice and nephew are children of these times and I try my best I guess to shield them from the worst of it when I'm around them, but I can't do it all. I am also very clear to them about it, without being graphic.