Yeah, I hear ya, LindaLou. I think it's the same for both sexes as regards imagery. The main difference is men don't feel as inclined to be "beautiful". That is, I never felt the compulsion to have the same build as the toy action figures I had as a kid. Somehow, it's different for men but the image issue does exist on some level.

Have you ever seen the video to the song the Sultans of Swing? Those guys had talent but you'd never see muscicians who look the way they did in any of today's videos.