God does not hate gay people or He would not have sent His only Son to die on a cross for them and for all sinners. It is the LIFESTYLE that we stand against, NOT the person. If that were so, then what hope would we have?
There maybe any number of reasons for a person to have attraction for the same sex. Only God can judge a person's heart and their intentions. For those who wish to put God before their same-sex urges, and resist indulging them, the reward will be great. They may fair better even than those of us not afflicted by such desires. Though greater the afflictions/testing, the greater the rewards. This goes for those suffering greatly around the world. God said that the first shall be last and the last shall be first.
Let us also remember that it is not easy even for the single heterosexual person either. Temptations afflict us all and this life, though temporary is not always easy and is a test. Each human being has weaknesses and sometimes those weaknesses can be turned around, for that is when Christ becomes our strength. Even Christ Himself was afflicted and tempted.
Every person, homosexual or otherwise, is loved by God. Our sins however are not! He invites us all to turn from them and come to Him. The choice, as always, is ours.
People who mock homosexuals, persecute them, are not pleasing to God and will also have to answer for this. Just as those who do this to Christians. But that does not mean we should cease from pointing the way to Christ and exposing sins - ALL SIN.
If i were someone that was attracted to the same sex, I'd suffer because I would know that my CHristianity calls me to morality and love of God and I would HOPE that I would answer His calling, not the calling of my flesh. Even as a single person, I have missed out because of sickness and gone through some personal suffering as a result, which I would not like to go into on here. But let us not forget that resisting all manner of sexual sin is not always easy, but the grace of God is there for us all and to resist and persist and keep our eyes on Christ and on Heaven? Is worth everything!
To fall into sin is human and God always lends us His hand to pull us back out. Nobody is immune to any of this. Anybody can fall into any kind of sin and if we become cocky about it, then that is pride. It is the PERSISTENCE in sin in the knowledge of what one is doing - and the indifference to God and His warnings and offering of redemption, (so a person can change their life) is what finally condemns a person. They in a sense, condemn themselves.