Abusive speech is difficult to uproot, though,
especially if it has been inculated by parents who themselves were verbally caustic or by a culture
that promotes domineering behavior.

But anything that is learned can--- be unlearned.
The Bible is the greatest help in regard to this.
It can assist one to overturn even strongly entrenched behavior.
{ Compare 2 Corinthians 10:4,5 }

How ?

Proper View Of God- Assigned Roles..
Often , men who are verbally injurious have a distorted view for husband and wife.

For example, the Bible writer Paul states that wives are to be
" in subject to their husbands " and that a husband is head of the wife."
{ Ephesians 5:22,23 }

A husband may feel that headship entitles him to absolute control.
But this is not so.

His wife, though in subjection, is not his slave.
She is his " helper " and " complement ."
{ Genesis 2:18}