Did you catch that my SIL and her husband own a donut shop?? Need I say more? I had told her I'd put on some weight around Christmas and she actually said accusingly..."you said you'd gained weight...well I don't see it!! " (I'm not kidding). Well..I'm sorry... What do you say to something like that? She really has been vicious to me which I'm not even getting into. But if I said the things she had said to me I would never hear the end of it. I just bite the bullet for the most part. I have retalliated a bit...about 4 or 5 times in the 25 years I've known her, but she has never really accepted me fully. Then again, not sure she accepts anyone including herself! I think that is the problem with most people. You have to actually love yourself before you are capable of loving others.

What you wrote on flouride was very interesting! My husband thinks its good for you. I never let the kids or myself get treated with that. I've also dealt with attitudinal dental assistants... : )