Hello Jeanie!
Thank you for your 'post'...yes, it must be very hard on the person who had an abortion to forgive herself. As you read from my previous posts, I agree with Bex. Yet, we must remind ourselves of the scriptures in Romans: Chapter 3:10 "As it is written, there is none righteous, no not one.." Chapter 3:23 "For all have sinned and come short of the glory of God." Chapter 5:8 "But God commendeth His love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us." We are to be Jesus' hands and feet, until He returns to claim His church (believers). The Holy Spirit is the 'convicter of sins'. Please be blessed by the below poem by Annie Johnson Flint:
HE GIVETH MORE GRACE ~
He giveth more grace when the burdens grow greater,
He sendeth more strength when the labors increase;
To added affliction He addeth His mercy
To multiplied trials, His multiplied peace.

His love has no limit; His grace has no measure;
His power no boundary known unto men;
For out of His infinite riches in Jesus
He giveth and giveth and giveth again. <><
roseinbloomBlessings, Abishag

Jesus said, "I am the way, the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me." [John 14:6]