My girls are older - one is almost 21 and the other 17. She does communicate socially a lot online...(which is what I am doing at the present...) but is pretty mature at this point. I'm glad this wasn't so rampant when they were younger. All they had was instant messaging. I homeschooled them for 7 of their most formative years and held them close.... When Brittney Spears came out I didn't approve cause you could see she wasn't innocent or a good role model from the start. Had them both wait to date till they were 16. They are both beautiful....and pretty secure. But I am at high school nearly daily and see what its like now. Kids don't know what's right half the time or aren't taught standards other than from media or they take their cues from that. Lots of what I call "gender confusion" too. They experiment... My heart goes out to kids now days.