Ever read Reviving Ophelia? Its written by a psychologist who worked with adolescent females and how they tend to lose their sense of self to different degrees because of how sexualized society is..what they think they are "supposed" to be like and how true they are to their own selves... (Some aren't as affected, but still hard). I have 2 girls so have been aware of those issues. It wasn't easy for me growing up either.. Women's Lib didn't exactly achieve its objective. We are more sexualized than ever.