I'm so sorry, Jinx. I wish I knew a solution for you, or had some advice. People are really "brainwashed", and I know my own father has even gotten cranky and raised his voice at me, because he has just thought all these years that I have been a TERRIBLE DAUGHTER (instead of being unhealthy) for not wanting to do all the things he has wanted me to do. He has yelled at me about the mercury, and said, "How do you KNOW that's what it IS?", and goes on to tell me that it doesn't affect him. Hmmm. He's mighty cranky. I know for a fact his fillings do things to him, I see it when he has symptoms that I do, but he passes it off as something else.