First of all, just wanted to say So Sick is a valubale member of this forum, rpobbaly more than msyelf, and it's not my intention to get her banned or anything, but I'm not the first one to be offended by her attitude towards people thus I'd like to bring it to public attention.

I always thought of this forum, and I believed most people here shared my view, as FRST OF FOREMOST a place of understanding and TOLERANCE as we all have been dismised by dcotros and even family members and our very deep chronicsufefring has often been dismissed. That's why I always valued this place, because of the appreication - not focus on- of suffering and the deep understandig of folks around here of it. That being said I think 'not passing judegement' has always been the basis for the existence of this forum, as many of us had been judged, mocked ourselves for thinking we are poisoned. Of course everyone is entitled to have their own say here and opinion, but the debate here should always be within respect for others, and u can respect one without trying to understand one.

I believe So Sick with her very black&white attitude keeps reccurently offending people and needs to be aware of that - cause i actually believe she does that unintentionally. She easily passes judgement onto others, and thus insults them, wthout even having any deeper understanding of their situation. She creates a climate of hostility which is not wanted here , where people need support.

Unfoertunetely seemes So Sick's view of 'support' is just exchanging advice about detoxing and stuff, not emotional/spiritual support. A typical judgemental so sick scenario is when she conveys contempt at people who she thinks - not having enough knowlegde to say so - are not getting better because they are plain lazy, and not because they are not responding as well to natural treatments as the luckier others - so sick included.

There have been other cases where people where considered offened by so sick's attitude. (unfortuenetely i feel to ill to research it and provide links to those threads right now, esp since so sick is an active poster and there are many posts to browse thrugh).

Sorry for making this personal, but I think So Sick needs to be aware of the fact that as I said she creates a lot of hostility through her attitude where it is not needed. I think a lot of us are sick enough and dont need to go through more, just because a person is not openminded about some things enough. It's her right, but she doesnt need to show her discontent with other's 'attitudes' IF THOSE ATTITUDES DONT OFFEND other people. It appears she's seeing things only from her own viewpoint.

So Sick, I just wnated u to know that for somebody who bares a nickname like that you have very little appreciation and recognition of suffering. Cause if u had u wouldn't be addresing people the way you are.