Bex I know you do, and it's easier to understand things for us but the thing is I dont know if we have to make allowances for people like So Sick and her behaviour because most people here being let's say (and that's just relative) "moderately" sick or sick in a different way than others have imagination enough to realise "they dont know the whole story" and some people maybe worse, and they should at least aknowldege that to themsleves and refrain from judgement, esp since they know how easily judged most mercury toxic people are by the "world". and most peple do that, they realise it, and that's beuriful in a way, cause sufferng makes them empathize with suffering of others (even if different), YET So Sick CHOOSES to judge people. With all that people are going through here its not just ignorance on her part bex, it's convenient ignorance.

yet i hope i'm wrong.