Well.... sticking my nose into someone else's very personal business isn't really my thing... but since you've laid the cards on the table...

I'd say... you are panicking because deep inside you feel you are not well and won't do as well as you know you can in a relationship, maybe some sort of screwed up hormonal reaction due to being chronically ill wih the mercury.

However, just because you aren't feeling your utmost best doesn't mean life has quit on you, it obviously has not.

You like the lady that's clear. Let her know about these mercury issues, keep caring for yourself and you will get well in time believe it or not. There are lots of people here who have experience with mercury and toxin cleansing.

I'd hate to say give up when it appears you've just gotten going. A family of your own is the best support you'll ever find. It's work and responsibility but nothing else in this life comes close to the rewards as far as I can tell. Nothing else comes close to inspiring a person to make the most of themselves like a family to take care of either.

Congratulations Dad, go with it. Just let her know you have some issues you are still working on. can't imagine that will make her feel any differently about you today than she did 2 weeks ago.