Bex, I don't imagine I'll want to put anymore of my posts in this particular thread after I type this. This thread is to honor Sandi, as you said and as Russ has designated it.

I included some of the history in this thread so that people might have a better understanding of the impossible situation Sandi found herself in. I didn't want to see this thread turn into a discussion about the drawbacks of, or benefits of, chemotherapy.

Sandi was in the middle of a horrific scenario. She did the best she knew how to do given the situation.

As you said, we can have discussions about the details and our anger on her behalf in another thread

Sharon