You don't know these people. They would interrogate me to find out exactly which urgent unpostponable appointment I have at exactly that time. When they had their last event they tried to pressure me to cancel a dentists appointment since the appointment might have taken long and I might have had to miss their event. I told them I refuse to cancel the dentist appointment and that I might have to miss their event because of it. The appointment didn't finish that late, and I was pressured to attend the event. This is what I have to deal with. My big mistake was attending many of her family's events at the start when I wasn't so chemically sensitive. Now it is very bad though. Stragely enough, I think my energy level is greatly improved most of the time even though my chemical sensitivity is much worse.

Even if I wasn't sick though, do I have an obligation to attend her family's events? I don't think so. What do you think? I tried talking to my father about being pressured to attend her family's events and that it isn't right for him and her family to do that to me. That didn't work though.