I know its hard some days and God says he will never give you more then you can handle but, sometimes, I think He pushes the envolope. Something I've tried to do is be thankful for what I DO have. For example, if I'm complaining over doing dishes, I stop and sometimes thank God that I am able bodied. (Even if I'm not always able minded <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" />) I have anxiety disorder. Be thankful that your man didn't get hurt when he fell through, its easier to fix the ceiling then it is a person. These are things I try to think, although it is hard when your having a rotten day. Try and cheer up, there is always someone else out there that is worse off then you are <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />