Dear Rachie I couldnt agree more. I have recently spoken to Russ about this rude behaviour. When I first joined this forum it was a place of haven and sanctuary to us suffering, where we could get love, suport and friendship. Yes there was always the odd Anon that would come on and try to annoy people, but things have definately changed, You can read a thread which you think will be helpful and all you find is a slanging match. Russ suggested to me that the caring people have a separate place where we could converse in peace. Im afraid I disagreed. Why the hell should we. Whats this forum for? As I believed, support and helpful tips. I would rather leave than let people drive me off because of their continual bickering and I know Im not the only one who is sick to death of it. Its become ridiculous. I know we all have off days and anger phases where we almost have to sound off, but it seems like some people are just using the forum now to slag each other off. If things dont change you can always come on and private post people who will suport you in a loving and kind way. Bless you, you obviously have a good heart. Love Tracy x