Tried the being the best person, that dosen't seem to work, still get crapped on. I know your trying to help but believe me in the last 3 years I havn't changed being the person I am and still caring for people, but it appears when your the one thats ill others don't seem to be able to handle it and would rather turn their backs. This is an illness you can't fight alone . You need support, so what if you don't get it? Tracy