Andrea,
Just wanted to let you know I'm praying for you and the upcoming removal. I had one removed at a time and did alright. I had and still do have rollercoaster days of all the weird feelings you discribe in your above posts. I have three small children 4,6, and 7 now and I explain to them that mommy needs to take it easy when I'm having "one of those days" I make sure I do not schedule too much or else I would be no good at all for them. I am also very chemically sensitive but a little bit better after removal. I still cannot wear my wedding rings or any metal except titanium.
I haven't begun formal chelation except diet because like you stated, lack of regularity in bowels.
I trust and pray God will bless you and your family!
Veg