I agree with her.

But I actually got poisoned rather heavy duty and it's chelate or die.

Most sincerely... let me try to describe it to you... one day you are strong and healthy... very strong... you go to the gym and lift weigjhts even... and then a week later you feel like you are truly dying... your arms your legs are weak as can be... your neck very very stiff... your ears are ringing very high pitched noises... strange sharp pains in remote regions of your body... you suddenly have the arthritis of an 80 yr old... your kidneys feel like they are about to explode... what do you do? Personally... laying there and feeling like that... feeling my heart beating very slowly... because my heart is also a mucsle... feeling my system shutting down... do you lay there or do you chelate?

Choose one. That's the choice I had to make. This was not a chelate for fun occasion.