It would help to realise the word sin actually means ignorance, as in Lacking knowledge, it doesnt mean bad, AT ALL.
When you lack knowledge you are more likely to make mistakes....When societies have the basis of insecurity, fear, guilt, blame etc. you are more likely to miss the lesson of knowing Mistake are lessons & lessons are for learning from, would offer you.... You become so involved in the negatives that you put yourself down, rehash your guilt over & over, fill yourself with shame so instead of learning from the mistake you have placed yourself into training yourself to repeat your mistakes.

Stress changes the molecular structure of the body & you threaten your health & well being & the cycle feeds off itself.
To pray, affirm is to ask believing you shall recieve....NOW take a look at what you ask for via what you believe can happen to you...& according to you faith it is done unto you.
If you give yourself reason to believe you're worth much you wont get much...Your choice.

Your life is a series of choices & repercussions. Reaping of the thought seeds you sow.
If it is going to hurt you (FIRST) then hurt another the choice is easy dont do it...if you dont know & have the courage to proceed & your intent is good (be honest about this) & you make a mistake & upset someone what more can you do. You have nothing to feel bad about but even so there would be a lesson in how you deal with it afterwards.
Poeople who dont hurt themselves dont hurt others deliberately.

Start feeling guilty or bad that someone else might have been over touchy
& yes you will be in trouble. An opology for upsetting can be offered but make it plain (if they keep up looking for attention by making you feel guilty) that you have no intention of feeling guilty for something you had no intention of doing. You are sorry they cant accept that but thats thend of it.
No fight, No argument....soon you will find others will accept this from you.
They may not like your genuine honesty but the grow to respect you ability
to be No frills honesty.
When you play games you create confusion in the minds of others & undermine yourself leaving yourself open to ridicule. You might say something with double meanings & deny you were being nasty...You cant fool yourself so dont even try.
Practice to be honest & genuine...not for others for your own self esteem.

When you work at keeping your concience clear thats really all the work you need to do...to build inner strength & be able to hold your head high.
It helps to work out on paper what traits you want others to know you as & practice 1 or 2 ar a time for them to become who you are.
This removes messiness from your life , you know where you stand with yourself which frees to to see where you might want to go in life....& your health blossoms.
If I have written this badly at times & you dont know what Imean dont hesitate to ask me to clarify.