RUSS i THINK SOME PEOPLE NEED TO READ YOUR POST ON KINDNESS IN CONFLICT. (POST - GETTING BETTER AFTER AMALGAM REMOVAL. )AFTER ALL THE CONFLICT DR HEASHAM AND I AS YOU KNOW HAD AGREED TO LET THINGS DROP. NOW IT SEEMS I AM BEING ATTACKED AGAIN AND I HAVNT PUT ON ANY POSTS TO DISCREDIT HIM AT ALL. I REALLY DONT NEED TO DEAL WITH THIS AND WANT ONLY TO USE THE FORUM AS A MEANS OF HELP AND SUPPORT. ITS REALLY STARTING TO GET TO ME. I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY THIS IS ALL GOING ON AND AM GETTING FRIGHTENED TO POST ANYTHING ANY MORE. TRACY

Tracy,

I'm sorry to see that you are feeling this way. I understand how you must feel and that you certainly have your hands full.

I try to allow people to exercise free speech in as much as I am allowed to so I don't interfere with the natural exchange of information, but if anyone is unkind in their response to another person, it is simply a reflection on the person being unkind.

The best we can do is state what we believe to be true. If someone wants to be unkind to us for that, they have the right, but with it they are discredited in the mind of many (or most) people who instinctively understand that those with the most kindness often (but not always) have the best truth or are at least the most likely to find it.

In fact, it is in the contrasting shadow of unthoughtfulness that the light of our kindness is most brightly revealed.

So long as you are kind and have a clean conscience, you have nothing to fear.

Hang in there. Your participation on this forum has helped many people and will for a long time to come.

thankyou Russ I am just particularly vunerable at the moment and so many people are trying to help me, including yourself. I just want to be able to use the forum in peace cos at the moment to be honest my friends on here and my family are the only ones saving me from giving in. I dread to think where id be now woithout it. So thankyou and God bless. Tracy.