I have not assasinated anybodys character and only responded to insults to me personally. I try to use this forum for what it was intended for. I ask for guidance and help from my friends not to be judged by people. I am well aware of what the forum should be used for and in future I will not respond at all to any insults thrown at me. However I think lunatics in the asylum is demeaning to any who uses the forum. O bviously we have got to the stage where we are being closely watched and its a shame but it appears we must hold back and be very guarded in what we say. A certain openness amongst friends has been ruined but I guess thats just the way it will have to be from now on Tracy