"What made things worse my dad went and asked teh dentist and they said mercury is safe its proven in a survey and that people are just money grabbers."

Most mercury free dentists and chelation doctors could double their salary if they went back to poisoning people to death and prescribing allopathic drugs. It's not about money for them, it's about doing the right thing, working with their hearts, and trying to save people's lives. As for this so called mind-boggling "survey", there is mass amount of scientific evidence showing that mercury amalgam is downright dangerous to the human body, and not a shred of evidence to confirm that it is safe.