I agree with Clare. Tracy has a lot on her plate right now. This isn't helping.

As to my fellow anonymous poster. Who cares what your name is here. At any given time there are 7 to 9 anonymous people on this forum. It is allowed here. For those who want a name, there are other forums that require membership. That's fine too.

Back to Tracy. Please leave her alone. Up unti now, this has been a very friendly, compassionate, and helpful group. Now others are coming on, it seems, only to argue. Tracy has added a lot to this group. It's not necessary to come to her safe place and trash her. As for anyone saying, "We're not trashing her." Just saying it doesn't make it so.