Dont be discouraged. It seems also that when something isnt meant- God completely shuts the door. On the other hand, when something is meant, Satan will throw in stumbling blocks to discourage you to "throw in the towel". It looks like in your case, its the latter (you being made discouraged to throw in the towel )

All you have to do is reflect on what Mary and Joseph went through trying to find a place to deliver Jesus - finally, they found a place - but in a barn. Before that, they had no cooperation in finding any kind of place she could deliver Jesus.--doors were shut in thier face.

So you cant always go by the fact that it must not be meant if things are not running smooth. Just hang in there and pray. and keep trying.