I hope neither of you will leave. It is really hard to deal with toxicity and very easy to say things or take things badly etc. It happens with me a lot and people's emotions on here are already like a bow string.

I find i get very very easily upset or irritated by things and can jump down people's throats over anything, whether it's justified or not, I can't seem to tell because I feel so angry and unwell.

And also it's a very horrible situation when a person takes their own life and it's not only shocking, but you tend to wonder about what could have been done or was she listened to and then you consider the other side of those trying to help. So it's no wonder people get angry on one side or the other. I imagine those around her will be totally distraught and asking a LOT of questions.

anyway, just hope you guys don't go. It's hard enough as it is, and this forum is probably the best I know of with likeminded people who are suffering and need to be able to vent, but on occassion it can lead to disagreements, and friction, but it's never intentional. People easily misinterpret on here at times, it's not hard to do.