As I said on the other post I wrote what I READ ,its up to individuals to interpret it how they will. I CERTAINLY DONT NEED THIS HASSLE. I have spent a good number of years working with young people and would never assume anything. I thought this forum was here for people to support each other and I dont intend to have to come on and defend myself for caring about someone. From now on I'll post my friends who support me and not put anything else on the forum, Im having a bad enough time as it is.