Please also consider how you come across when you don't agree with people. It's totally fine to disagree with people, speak your point of view, give constructive criticism, etc.....but please try not to come across as an attack. First of all, it's simply respectful. Second of all, if you want someone to truly hear you, then you don't want to start off on the attack or with a harsh criticism. All that does is put people on the defensive and your chances of being truly heard are lost.

Being a feminist that works with sexual assault survivors, I understand the points made above. But discussing those points is better than forcing them on someone, especially when Tracy did not mean any harm with her concern for that girl.