I use to be open minded about things and God well I guess I.m still open minded about that guy. But I have to say 2 out of 3 of my children are non believers and this came about because of attending cchurch with them. Not all but many of the so called christians were the unkindest judgemental people I have ever met. I use to work in a Catholic school until I became ill and the kindest, friendliest people who worked there were non-believers. The truth is the people who labelled themselves as good practicing Catholics went out of their way to make every body elses lives hell and thats no exageration. My belief is there are many people who do not attend church who are kind,sensitive human beings and there are those who use the label Christians, Catholics whatever because they think however they trat someone they will be forgiven. I know this has made me disbelieve in the whole church worship thiing, but God dosent have to be there and if he does exist, man seems to create his own evil.