HI Dawn, thanks I appreciate it, you and others are a great help to me too. It's hard not to get frantic or come across as obsessive sometimes to others, because I haven't known anything like this kind of suffering in my life. I'm almost in a half state of shock most of the time.

Idon't have answers, but like you and others, all one can do is search and keep trying.

You are donig the right things with the cavitations and you're not negelecting your daughters, even if you can barely do a thing. I've heard of Mothers in wheelchairs or almost bed ridden and you'd be surprised at how much children just "know" they are loved and grow up extremely happy and stable.

I'd rather have that for a MOther, than a healthy "efficient" mother, materially being able to do anything, but not feeling somehow loved.

So don't ever feel guilty. Some kids end up caring for their own parents and end up some of the best human beings around.